I was working as a banquet waiter last night
and was serving in a dinner for Singapore Arm Force ( SAF)
as one of their general was retiring and they are giving him a
farewell dinner.

In this very dinner.
ALOT of speech were being said.
while these speech were being said out.
we, waiter couldn't do anything but just stand at a side and also listen to the speech
Most of the speech where about the times they spend together
the Thick and Thins that they have been through.
and to the end of the dinner a song was sang
'' peng you'' in english '' Friends''
while the mtv was being screened out
i thought of the word ''friend''
i gave it a little thought.
lol of course i wasnt thinking about that guy's friends
but MY friend.

whenever we talk about friends.
we normally will think them as people that we
pour our hearts to.
gone through thick and thins with.
fought together with
even
fought among with.
some may even think to an extent that
they can even die for their friends.
or in a chinese saying
'' they can climb a stairs made of sharp knifes or jump into a fire-ry sea''
but is that possible?
lol
they say say only mah ( man this sound SUPER singlish)
as talking is FREE!!!!!
haha!

to many of us, including me
the first few people that you would think of when
you are in a trouble, or when you have some things that you want people to hear out to
we would mostly think of your friends.
But why is it your friends?
why isn't ur family?
your siblings, your parents?
some of you guys would say
'' NO i did!''
but im speaking it as an overall.....
i thought through about this
and this was my conclusion.

Is it because we spend more time with our friends?
Is it because we feel that our friends understands us more than our parent?
then i have to ask this ques,
why does ur friends understand you mroe than your parents?
did you give ur parents a chance to walk into your heart
like what you gave to your friends.
You feel that your friends understands you more
as you guys think the same way?
you feel that your parents are old-fashion etc?
then why do you guys have the same thinking?
as you guys are about the same age. you guys have the same Naive thinking?
those foolish thoughts?
you guys think the same as you guys ASSUME that this is the right way to think and feel
as this age, as this era.
i know..
as i feel the same way too!
lol

However, have you guys ever thought through.
whenever you quarrel with your parents about the diff thinkings that you guys had
have it ever once that your parents were wrong?
ok, i don't know about you guys
but i usually quarrel with my mom about our diff thinking
and usually after that,
i cool myself down and think back about the fight
and i ALWAYS, relise that im at the wrong end
ALWAYS...

but although knowing that she is always right or often right
why do i still quarrel with her?
as im too stubborn?
or do i think that it feels good to talk to
people who have the same thinking ( friends)

how far can one go for his/her friend?